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Location: Arima, Trinidad & Tobago

I love Carnival!!. Trinidad's carnival! Once a year my senses rejoice at the opportunity to douse my soul with intoxicating soca music, shed my cares and fears, and temporarily transfer my spirit into the mas. (S. Drakes)

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Where exactly do we draw the line as women?




There has been many concerns expressed about the increasing vulgarity in Trinidad’s Carnival .Women venturing out to party and play mas in the skimpiest of clothing are a common sight during the recent Carnival celebrations. The music and dances are considered to be sexually explicit. The question is where do we draw the line as women?.

This is where I draw de line. For me I always keep in the back of my mind that life continues after Monday and Tuesday.
  • I never allow any guy to touch me while dancing, don’t hold my waist or even touch my stomach.
  • I always walk around with a tag with my name on it. ( jus kidding).
  • Don’t lift me up unless I know you and I know you very well.. and I approve.
  • I don’t whine on my girlfriends, we hug and jump like crazy… but we don’t whine on each other..That’s a No No.
  • Don't offer me to get me a drink at the bar.. is ok, no really is ok.
  • I don’t like men to sandwich me, yuck!!!
  • When ever I am getting to intoxicated I stop drinking alco for a while , then start again when i think I could handle it.

Where do you draw the line?

44 Comments:

Blogger caisoqueen said...

Kevian.....your posts are terribly funny! Well, I don't mind the occasional sandwich, if they're both cuties..and they know we jus dancing and not humpin! I keep it brief though. But, I swear, nothing grosses me out more than ah man comin to take a whine and he have a hard toteee....GRRR-OO-SSS. I could gag. Is one cut-eye eh! And den when dey cyah get de point and keep chasin me for more... I had to tell this one guy to get the hell away! And he had de nerve to tell me .."so what I here for". Well, I tell him, "why yuh doh go and look for mudda to wine on"...hehehe...Luckily i ain get no buss head hehehe

6:25 AM  
Blogger Bagogyul said...

lol...
i'm a solo winer....i like to tease the men with my wine...

But when i do give ah wine...it's very brief and ah does put it on dem.

You could call me stush if you wah...buh me eh care.

6:35 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

Caiso well dies another level of nastyness... hard totee is GROSSS!! dem better stay away from me before I snip it off..lol.

6:53 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

Bago gyal u sounding jus like me! dies exactly what I does do. I like to throw meh beads all over de place.. left, rigth, back,push, left, right,back,push!! wuk up meh waist...wuk up meh waist!

6:57 AM  
Blogger Icahwait* said...

On the road wining I have to agree with bago & caiso to keep it brief with strangers. They have to be real hot for me not to.
Whatever happen I know I will never want to have to regret anything Ash Wed.

And hope that is a woman in the last pic with the orange top. it looking questionable lol.

7:05 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

i cah wait.. i was wondering the same thing... but there was another pic with the individual on the website and when i looked closer i realised that it was actually a female..lol.

7:24 AM  
Blogger saucydiva said...

Another stush winer here! I doh like men touching me to wine either, all that goes through my mind is hepatitis is transmitted through SWEAT. eeewwww!

I say save the "simulated sex" wines for when you reach home after mas and keep it off the roads, I mean lying down on the road?!! That is too far.

7:46 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

yeah I does be wondering what does be going on with some of them people. they does almost be having sex in clothes.yuh ever see how dem bajan and dem does "simulate sex" in parties?

8:58 AM  
Blogger buublenut said...

LOL you guys are killing me. You telling me the thing in orange is a women - oh gosh I hope she don't come accross this blogg LOL the pic almost make me ick when I first see it.

I agree with all of you quick whine and I go on my way - after all varity is the spice of life. No point on sticking to a man you don't even know - see no reasson in it. Sometime I real go wild and jump on on man and thing but usually (heehee) only when I know them.

Ill I don't want to feel no hard nothing poking me anyhow !!! Think I'll use your mother line caisoqueen :)

These bloggs real get me excited bout Carnival guys :)

9:42 AM  
Blogger Icahwait* said...

In that same pic self you ain't see where the girl who taking is doggy style head resting? eh eh no thx.

9:54 AM  
Blogger Karabana said...

That is the point, huh, that life has to continue after Tues. The way I see it, I do act more wild on the road than I do in everyday life, but then again, no time in my life am I wining wearing a beaded bikini in front of 1000s & 1000s & 1000s of ppl - except playing mas!

Better blame it on the bikini! Bwwwwwwahhhh!!!

But no, I certainly wouldn't think of putting on a show like those pictured, or worse. When a guy wining behind me touches me, that's it, over. I take a squirt of rum from a guy after he just took one. I sandwich between guy friends. I don't see anything wrong w non explicit gyrl n gyrl wining.

Those picture are the types of images the rest of the world gets of mas though - ppl who don't go to Caribana see splashed all over the front pages of the papers pics of the youngest gyrls with plenty of cleavage poppin out, sloshed looks on their faces, wining on a cop or a paramedic - so what are ppl to think but it's a free for all drunken frenzy?!

Good 4 You to bring this up, Kevian, I'm not surprised you would, you have no fear to bring up the touchy Carnival subjects.

Gonna post about classism next?...

LOL! Kidding...

kinda...

10:13 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

Yeah, is like an ORGY in clothes, but on that note u all believe that carnival is a big ORGY? that is how one of my friends described it.

10:15 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

actually yes, karabana.. the post in the making now...lol and yuh give meh a nice name for it...lol

I mean everyone has a point where they draw de line, those are jus mine.

I mean i jus doh like to whine on girls..lol, probably a little bumsee to bumsee..now an again and for a split second. But that kinda thing is not mine. i don't find girls look bad doing it.

On de road is strictly dickly.. for me...lol

a sandwich between guy friends might be cool for a short while, but my problem is I actually can't dance when they sandwiching me, plus de all sweat and stuff..YUCK!.lol.

i personally don't like being so close and personal with men on the road unless they are my boifriend, who doesn't play mas. It just doesn't feel right.

10:28 AM  
Blogger Icahwait* said...

oh gosh nothing worse than some nasty ol fool with his sweaty stinky ass self rubbin up on yuh. That is not on.

12:07 PM  
Blogger Karabana said...

Exactly, so if sweaty man makes contact w me/grabs me, uh uh, I move away! Yeah & I don't wine on gyrls, aint me, "strictly dickly", OMG, too funny!!!!!
I suppose the ppl who do those Carnival porn poses think of their time on the road as an orgy, but most ppl know better. Well, maybe I should say most gyrls know better, bc don't all guys think playing mas as a time to be w/o their gyrl so they can be free to get on with other gyrls?...

12:44 PM  
Blogger Hottie Hottie said...

Allyuh. First things first. Is WINE, not WHINE!!!!! If we doing de ting lewwe spell de thing right nah! Awrite. Second things second. I does REAL bruk way and get on bad on de road. BUT, by mehself. If ah see a male fren and we on cool terms, he go get a wine. But a intense SHORT small wine. A lil sample but not the whole meal including dessert! Wining on woman, not really nah. De madness does take meh head and we does jump up on each other or holding each other and maybe a lil facing each other and wining thing but full on wining, nuh uh. At least, I eh think so, as far as I can't remember. And being drunk is NEVER an option. And if ah doh know yuh. DOH TOUCH MEH. Dat being said, ah does wine on lamppost, street sign, fencing, burglar proofing and the drinks and music trucks. It have plenty lamp post in tong I does shame to pass...

And welcome back Kevian dahling. Hope yuh better now doux doux.

3:51 PM  
Blogger kevian said...

Most men don't want their personal women behind them on road, but I guess it would differ according to their indivdual personalities and the nature of their relationship @ karabana.

4:46 PM  
Blogger kevian said...

Hottie like this blogging is ah medicine by itself, I HAVE BEEN HEALED... AMEN

Girl i does WINE by myself, lick down lampost, stop truck,make policemen blush and gay men laugh by wining on de bumsee ( PS: Don't try this at home).
.

4:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i personally argree with you on those comments, but if there is one thing i dont hold ladies unless they as you said by consent. i dont even ask to hold you or wine on you, you gotta pull my arms around you lol. is only asses does realy do things like dat honestly i learn that from school days my moms tell me told me "let them come to you dont go behind jus so yuh go get licks" so i learnt early thanks to my mom lol
so hats off to you again keep it up you doing well....
soul calibar

5:14 PM  
Blogger kevian said...

I agree with u Soul, most ah dem men jus don't have respect for women. I think some of them does see monday and tuesday as a big feast!!. Excess alco is no excuse because from what I heard, when u get drunk yuh does do whatever in the back of yuh mind.

5:25 PM  
Anonymous sweettrini said...

Yuh see dat lying down in de street ting?? NO THANK YOU!!! I have been going Carnival regularly since '96 and at no time I ever break away where I would be ashamed for meh mudder to see meh and believe you me, meh mudder has seen me get on before!! I believe in the sexy wine!! I believe a man must see you roll yuh waist and tell yuh he love yuh and want to marry yuh (and you sweetly say no than you dahlin' and keep it movin'), I believe a real good looking stranger could get a lil taste of the wine but yuh must leave him with his tongue hanging out. I beileve yuh could wine where woman say nah boy, dais talent but still yuh have class.

But...........to each his own, oui.

8:31 PM  
Blogger Carnival Jumbie said...

Hottie I jus like you too yes. Is only if I know yuh good and we cool(Cause i could be acting cool to be poilite buh doh really like yuh) that yuh MIGHT get a wine. I generally doh like no man touching me unless is MY man.
And WHY because you have on a thong some men does feel it is a sign that say "Wine on me NOW!". No that is not yours brudder. A thong doh mean I like to man on every arbitrary man that rub he tote on my backside. How about a time a man come up on me and I tell him off and walk off so he try and jam my friend. She tried to walk off and he empty a whole Guiness on she head ,in she white costume. He find she should just let him wine on her..WTF!!

8:54 PM  
Blogger Karabana said...

HH, not Allyuh now, not me, I got it right & I'm the damn Canadian, eh!

8:54 PM  
Blogger kevian said...

"dais talent but still yuh have class" I love it- daz exacly what I does try to achieve on the road.. u said it right Sweet trini.

Jumbie and what yuh friend do after he throw the guiness on she??????.... i woulda take ah guiness bottle and slap him straight to face and walk straight to the police and sit down..I ent making joke.

1:00 AM  
Blogger saucydiva said...

what the hell, the man pour guiness on the girl!?! What did she do Diva?


I never wine on lampost and ting eh, but yes, I have been known to hop up on the drinks truck and put down a wine...even got pics to prove it LOL.

5:03 AM  
Blogger Hottie Hottie said...

I agree with Kevian. He empty a Guinness on she? And no man eh run yup he chest?! I know the average Trini man woulda real rough he up fuh dat. Anon, thanks for having respect for the ladies. And Karabana, ah was to mention how is you alone spell it right. Butt hen I KNOW you go MAKE SURE you spell THAT word right! How the boxing going?

5:07 AM  
Blogger Icahwait* said...

ok a buss head was def in order for him. What de ass?
you ain't hate too when you give somebody a wine and then next thing you know they feel they own you. Can't handle it! I don't like nobody stick up under me

9:05 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

Girl I does pay to play my mas....so why de hell dem man and dem trying to act like if they own yuh on de road, is beyond me.

9:39 AM  
Blogger Carnival Jumbie said...

Well boy, by the time she get the guiness I had already walk off it was a 8pm on Carnival Tuesday on Charlotte St. So yuh know the man and he squad was a serious ghettorian. She was just in shock and they did not have any fellas we knew nearby to sort them out. I went and find meh bodyguard one time

11:14 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

Bodyguard?? but u ent easy ...you is Omar Panday.

12:00 PM  
Blogger saucydiva said...

humph! That is why sometimes it does be good to play mas with a big crew, he only do she dat because he see is woman alone!!!

12:32 PM  
Blogger Icahwait* said...

Safety in numbers. always stick wid your friends yes, and don't forget the name tags just incase you get lost.

12:48 PM  
Blogger Hottie Hottie said...

Real bullshit. And when them so cyah see dey way they does want to know why.

1:24 PM  
Blogger kevian said...

Yeah safety in numbers fuh real I am a believer in that, i have this friend who does play mas with de crew every year.. but she always straying all round de band wining on this man and that man.. i hadda give she dat stroy so hopefully she will stop.

1:51 PM  
Blogger buublenut said...

boy what I would do to that man with the Guinness!!!!

Last Carnival some maddess all go on on the road. Some foreign white girl (watch me lol) from Norway or something tell me she had to pee and it just she and she man and she didn't know where to go - guess she felt like my white ass going to help she out so I go on and tell she to pee on the side of the road and me and my next girl will block she. Out of no where some man want to come push in his head to watch she, I give him one good cus but tell me how the man want to fight and brawl with me (drunken ass he was) but you know the trini man are good because within seconds I tell you there were a good 15 men costing a real scene on this boy and I just bounce.

I can't deal with the men who want to disrespect women - what you all say steuuuups :)

8:28 AM  
Blogger Karabana said...

You know I always spell wright! ;-)
Boxing is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!, I'm telling ya, building my endurance big time to have the proper stamina to do all the wines...

9:28 AM  
Blogger Hottie Hottie said...

Buubles - you eh easy!!!!! You's a real Trini oui! Dais why I find it strange de man with the Guinness eh get a beat down from de Trini men that was around.

10:02 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

bubbs... girl it does be so hard for me to believe that u not trini.. she does even type trini.. lawd I LOVE IT!!

8:42 PM  
Blogger Karabana said...

& check gyrl out using steups now too
:-)
Buublen, Hubby wants to ask you, can you be his bodyguard on the road? ;-)

8:48 PM  
Anonymous Shandy said...

WOW! I'm loving the topics!

Where I draw the line, the same as I do while clubbing in NYC.

*I get my own drinks
*I usually wine solo but if I see a hot fellah I give him a brief one or if I know the man I'll give him a wine for about a song if so long.
*I don't wine on women. Nope, no way.
*I don't do the falling on the ground smilulated sex-act thing. I don't care if I drank half of the House of Angostura I won't do that!
*no uglies or stinkies for me either.

2:04 PM  
Blogger Sexelise said...

I know i'm late.. but thats why my man does play mas with me! So when I wanna wine on something it's mine... I guess I am stuch winer!

5:55 AM  
Blogger kevian said...

sexelise you are not too late as long as the post still on de page..lol. i glad for u that u and yuh boifriend could play mas together, saucy had a post about that recently " don't bring sand to the beach".

10:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

suh wait nuh kevian what happen tuh we bajans now, how we does get on? i find yuh real wrong! so yuh know what fuh all dem trinis and dem dat feel bajans does wuk up too stink. carnival monday and tuesday i sorry fuh yuh coz i dont plan tuh pelt no waist " i gine fling waist" and get real on millitant.

4:26 PM  
Blogger Trini By Injection said...

Oh goooorsh Kevian!!! I now readin dis blog entry boi. Too funny but too true gyul.

1:31 PM  

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